Hi girl,

You have done a great job at this. Now is not the time to backslide. Take stock of what is working.


I assume you have finished reading TAoS. Anything in there that you want to add to your new self?


I strongly suggest you take some time and reflect on your weekend away. Did H feel like he was loosing you? How did he respond.


Part of this process is YOU finding yourself. How many new female friends IRL have you made since BD? Maybe that is a goal for you.

I wish you well.

Again, have fun with this. It is your life.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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