many MLCers experienced this kind of thing where one parent left and abandoned them
MY XH did as well

All we can do for our kids is to provide a strong 1 parent unit, therapy if needed and awareness

We will only know when they hit 40-if the cycle will repeat

funny thing is my XH sister stayed M with no issues that I see, so each person is affected differently
they had the same upbringing ,,she was younger
and
my brother and I both picked MLCers-and Married them and Divorced them
and our parents stayed together until death-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow