Not sure I agree on the last point. I think some have dropped the rope completely, and to great effect. I remember dropping the rope in my sitch and it was a freeing experience. It is funny, more often than not, those that truly drop the rope, are surprised at how the WAS comes towards them instead of away from them. I guess it is all part of the pursuit-distance dynamic.
Good point on the honesty in relation to other posters gauging detachment. I think people's posting does offer insight, no question. You see those that are laser-focused on the WAS comings and goings. And words and deeds. But true we typically come here to discuss our sitches so it isn't always true that because I post so much about her that I am not detached from her. Then there are those that post and you can feel the raw emotional pain and anxiety oozing from them.
Anyway, hang in there RR. Your sitch has been churning longer that most. Your patience through all of this has been exemplary.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
