A familiar story with questions NINE

[SteveLW]

RR, I know you've had a tough go of it. I know you've struggled with the idea of giving up, vs. continuing to try. I get all of that.

However, I wonder if your exasperation with your sitch and ongoing limbo doesn't creep into your "expressions". Women are masters at reading body language, that is why manipulation doesn't work well with our Ws. They will detect it. They can gauge insincerity like a lie detector test.

So take the valuable information she gave you and use it as an improvement opportunity. Try to control your expressions. I know that is hard. But I had to do the same thing. RR I feel like you've always struggled with detachment. When you aren't detached emotionally then your feelings will come out in your body language and she will pick up on it.

RR, I know you know all of this stuff. You've been at this for a long time. But I feel like you've never really been able to drop the rope completely. And she feels that.