You always have words of wisdom to pass on. The anger and resentment I have has been dissipating. Confirmation of his affair and his upcoming trip to Hawaii with her caused a resurgence for sure. I know it will pass. I think I will always have feelings for him on some level. I work on forgiving him every day.
Re: Facebook guy. Again...thank-you. I will be careful and heed your advice. I do think that people come into your life for a reason. What that reason is remains to be seen. TBH...I suspect he and I will end up being friends in the long run. I just enjoy talking to him.