Question: One of her complaints about the marriage was that I didn’t text her all the time, like during the day to say hi or how she was doing. I did it maybe once a week but she wanted it all the time. I know I’m not suppose to pursue but should I text her during the day to ask how her day is or just to say hi?
No that would be pursuit. Did she ever bring that up to you prior to asking for a D? It's just BS script to justify her reasons. Asking for a D because you didn't text 'hi'. Crazy right?