The guy sounds really nice. I would heed some caution though. There is no awkwardness because there is no history. Everything is a blank slate. We can be anyone we want to be which means he can be anything he wants to be. I am not sure if it's you've been texting two hours a day or that you know it's two hours a day that scares me more. Slow down.
I do not think you are a hypocrite. I do think that you still harbor resentment and feelings towards your H. Yes, betrayal of the highest order, he is a coward and a [censored], but it should no longer matter to you. The fact it does says you still have feelings for him.
And I am not raining on your parade. If meeting new people was what it took for you to find out what we here have always known, then it was absolutely what you needed to do. You DV, are a woman of worth and any man should be proud to have you on their arm.
I stick by my initial assessment - your H is an idiot. But he no longer matters because you are no longer defined by him.