Just over a week ago, W asked me to change weekends with her so she can "work" on spring break weekend, then she would have S for three weekends in a row. I told her I would have to think about it.
She waited till the last minute to write her work schedule. I didn't ever give her an answer (I had decided that if she tried anything funny, I would be glad to keep S with me, but I wouldn't be switching weekends). She messaged me today and said she got someone from a different store to come work, and her schedule is now all morning shifts with Saturday off, and she would have a normal weekend with S.
Which is a good thing. I'm sure it may have had something to do with me not budging for her sake (probably wouldn't have had to work and just wanted to party), or the fact that I've been uploading TONS of evidence in the court-monitored app that would work against her. But she finally decided that for this once, she's going to be a mom.
I thanked her for letting me know and asked if S would be staying at his grandparents on Saturday (which is usually what she does). She said no, he would be with her.
I politely stated that (and forgive me, this isn't going to sound as polite as I put it in the app) I have given evidence of her paramours being at her house while he's there, and if I find out that it happens again, I will be pursuing contempt of court charges against her for breaking the standing court orders forbidding any paramours from being on the premises with S overnight.
Even if it's an old paramour that she's not currently dating (because they hooked up before she filed the first time and now he's dating her roommate).
I'm taking a very hard stance against her now.
And honestly, I hate it. I guess I still have some sympathy and love left inside of me for that horrible girl.
I don't have any hope for R. None.
But that doesn't mean I don't wish it could be that way.
