Re: me being a hypocrite. I don’t think so. My H left one live-in relationship and went directly into another without a day in between. For me it has been seven months of being alone...four years, seven months if you want to be completely accurate. I am not living with anyone or promising anything to anybody. I’ve been up front with the people I’ve met that I am not looking for anything serious and primarily just wanting to meet people and expand my circle of friends. I haven’t slept with anyone...I haven’t even kissed anyone. I don’t see myself being hung up on my H. Are ALL my feelings gone? No. But I am nowhere near where I was when this started. I am healing. I am moving forward but I’m not trying to find another husband. I am fine being on my own. So far, I’ve met one person who is quickly becoming a good friend. He knows exactly where I am at and I know where he is at. He has an amazing spirit and outlook on life that I am drawn to and we’ve had some really good conversations. I think he is someone I will learn a lot from. If it becomes more than a friendship in the future, I think I would be very lucky to have him for a partner. For now though, he is my friend and I like him a lot.
As always...so grateful to have the people on this board looking out for me and asking me the tough questions. Much love to you all...
We are on a journey in which our situations began uniquely but is following a path that is leading us to a common destination: Liberation, self-worth, and freedom.
Let me ask you this, when this whole thing started, did you see yourself where you are now?
