WAW says I'm the "perfect husband and partner"

[Nutcrac]

I guess this is where experience matters. You should read my posts on some of the mistakes I did. I admire your confidence and optimism. I am also a very optimistic person and I also would hope u should get back to your wife. However, remember this - She sees none of these good qualities in you now. At this time she wants out. So she will take herself out hook or crook. And you are simply following her breadcrumbs being a nice-guy. You may use some delay tactics to prolong separation but that is all detrimental. It will affect your well being and ur future. Why would you or anyone for that matter want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?Be a man and maintain your dignity.

If at all anything is under control it is only You. And she is not! So even if u become superman it doesn't matter to her as for her, this marraige is over and done. You should start thinking different. Take a deep introspective about you and the mistakes you did in past and overcome it. Think about this she has done 2 BDs. She is as fickle minded as she can ever be. Not ready to face the truth and wants an easy way out. By you letting her go, will create that awareness in her on what she wants to choose in the future after a long time of radio silence. She needs to go put in the "grass is greener on the other side" world and make mistakes. Until then she won't prefer you.

Let's assume for a fact that there will be a miracle and she will come back with apology and start living with you from Day after tomorrow. What is the guarantee that there wont be a BD3? Do you trust her now? If at all you guys were meant to be together, she will come back at which time who knows whether you will be ready to accept her or not?