I just hope she works on herself and she is going to continue IC even outside the house. Right now, she is still benefiting from my health insurance. I don't know a timeline that typically sees changes. I don't know what type of loss she will need to occur (if there is any) to wake up out of this fantasy of being "alone" and free to do what she wants.
That is an awfully tight grip you have on that rope. Time and space is not looking over your shoulder at what she is doing. I will try to find a post I wrote to another poster, Did, because he could not bring himself to let go of the rope! Guess what, Did is moving toward finalizing their divorce. All because he couldn't TRULY give her time and space. Maybe the time and space wouldn't have changed that for him.....but now he will never know.
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M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
