Originally Posted by svdad
I found concrete evidence that WW has been lying to me (and kids) about where she has been going almost every weekend - and that it indeed is the OMs house.

Question for vets: Does this change anything for me? Before it was pretty easy for me to ignore her in our house and just play/enjoy my kids but now that I am 100 percent sure she is not only lying but infidelity is involved it is hard for me to not grit my teeth every time I see her. I really would be happier at this point with her out of the house.

Rule #1: Never reveal WHAT you know
Rule #2: Never reveal HOW you know
Rule #3: Just reveal the you DO KNOW. H:"W, STOP. We both know you are lying. When you are ready to tell me the truth I will listen."


Rule#4:Just don't do this in front of the children.

You can handle it.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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