I am so glad you didn't pay for the daycare when the children are with her. She needs to grow up and take on some responsibility and not look to you to be her savior on all things.

As for the mismatched clothes. You might want to consider purchasing some clothes for when the children are with you. Now, just be prepared that if you send those clothes home with the children, they will not come back as a matched set. I would keep the clothes at your place for when they come to stay with you.

I'm so glad that you and the children had a great time at the amusement park.

Keep up the good work!

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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.