Most men and women MLCers are the same. The one difference I've seen is that when male MLCers walk, they virtually always have an OW. When female MLCers walk they usually have an OM but a small percentage do walk out without another man in line.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.