My IC last week pointed out I have a difficult time of letting things go (which was also a sticking point in our marriage), so I've just purchased some books on the subject and will just take it in small bites to let things go and move on with my life. I'm not at the point yet where I can say with or without him because I just can't yet.
We are meant to be meeting with the attorney on wednesday and then the divorce will be final 30 days from then. any thoughts on me saying I now can't make wednesday because of work (partially true) and gifting myself a little more time.
He keep saying he has seen how much I have grown since December (partial BD and me saying IC), but I keep letting this small things be big things that set me back so there's no consistency. I'd really like the gift of time to practice consistency but also worried that delaying will come across as controlling or pursuing?
ILYBINILWY - 11/19/18 Got Better - 12/20/18 Counseling - Jan and Feb MIL issues - Jan BD - 2/13/2019 IHS - 2/14/2019
