Wow DV, you've had a busy few days! Sounds like you're taking your time on the dating which is good to hear. 6 months post-BD is still a little too soon in my opinion, so just be careful. Please understand that none of these guys just wants to be your friend. If they are in heavy contact with you then it's because they want to be in a R with you. If you just want to be friends then be clear about that as early as possible.
I'm curious why you keep having the R talks with H? It seems to really drain you. Not sure what is getting accomplished?