Well...that was tough. Just had the hardest, yet most honest, conversation with my H than I have had in a long time. It was really, really difficult but somewhat cathartic for both of us. Started off quite angry and defensive but we eventually broke down and said some things to each other we probably should have a long time ago. I’m feeling pretty emotionally drained but also okay. It wasn’t an angry talk in the end...just a sad one...for opportunities lost...and promises broken...and words unspoken...
He somehow knew that I was dating. Not sure how. He also seemed to think I have someone at his work spying on me which is crazy. No idea where he got that idea from or who he thinks it could possibly be. He also admitted that he knows this woman from work. I don’t know if they started out as roommates or what but whatever the case, I think he is making a big mistake. I would have more respect for him if he stood on his own two feet and worked on himself but he’s not doing that. He’s jumping into a relationship to avoid it.
Facebook guy continues to text me. He is really, really great. Super positive and emotionally and physically healthy. Someone you would want to have for a friend. I’m going to definitely stay in contact with him regardless of whether or not we actually end up dating. It might be better to just be friends, TBH. That way I can make sure he stays in my life...lol.
Anyway....bit of a stumble for DV6 but I’m getting back on my feet. That talk needed to happen.
