Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY

[mikeyb]

So it's been a a little while since I've posted. Things have been pretty good the last few weeks, until today.

The W woke up and I was doing dishes, she walks by to take out the dogs and said I was going to do them" I said "it's fine I got it" Then after a few minutes she asked me to sit down, I did. At which point she came over with a stack of papers and said we need to fill these out. It was fileing paperwork for divorce. Things went slightly sideways, not crazy, but whatever. I ended leaving, I had stuff I had to do. I came home and she left for work and the paperwork was left out so I looked over it. She is trying to file a simplified dissolution which requires that we both agree the marriage can't be saved. And requires co-operation for filing from both of us.

I have no intentions on filing these out because I do not believe the marriage can't be saved. Any advice on how to tell her this?