My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 6

[joejoe1]

Over,

Here's a question, how has your position changed in your M since you first came here? How has your W changed?

I don't see much growth. I see that you understand the concepts better, I see you giving advice, but your application for your own sitch has not been good. You have evidence your WW went back by OM house, what is her consequences for doing so? She lied to you, broke your trust, don't respect you.

You'll do a lot of having R and M talks, go to a MC, but where are the actions? When are you going to start respecting yourself, because from what I'm reading, you have no respect for yourself and neither does your W.

I think you should start there. And ignoring her calls and going to sleep on her is not respecting yourself, it's childish.

What actions have you done, that's taught here on this site? Because all I'm seeing is two people with attachment issues, not knowing how to let go or put in the appropriate work to fix their M. And yes, just because you aren't the WS don't mean you aren't to blame for the position you'll are in right now.

If I know someone is doing something wrong and I don't say anything, than I'm complicit. If, I know a person is doing wrong, and I tell them, they are wrong and I continue to allow that wrong and accept that wrong, Im just as much too blame for their actions towards me.