Yes, for me. I asked for them and he said yes. We'll see. I think you might be right about extra pressure - he is so fragile and erratic right now - but he's also asking for me to support him and wait for him and I don't feel okay about doing that without seeing he is at least making some tiny effort to keep connected with me in any small way he can. I get your point though. I guess we will just see how it shakes out this week. I won't see him until Wednesday when I am working late and he is in the house taking care of the kids - he will be with eldest and that's a trigger point for conflict and my anxiety, but it is an improvement that he offered and responded well when I asked him to be gentle with him. Again, we'll see.
