Thank you kml and Dawn...he spelled humility correctly. I did not because I am typing from my phone and for some reason, I cannot get these forums to Zoom in correctly, so the print is super small.
My friend thought that perhaps, guys do not like to hear about someone else’s kid as much. it’s a topic that bores them. He was ok listening to the negatives because it offered him a way to problem solve, but me talking about my son became too much for him? And perhaps I should not do that it the future. These guys are not his dad. At the same time, my son is basically my life so it’s easy for me to go there in conversation after conversation.
His delivery is bad. I do not know if his intent is. He says it is not. But I just do not want to be around him anymore. I have been depressed and unhappy. I read about you and Ginger and Focus’ relationships and I realize that mine is not making me feel that way at all. There was not anything super great about our relationship to balance out his poor delivery or the banter that he seeks.
It’s getting later in the day and my son will be here soon and I still haven’t done it. It’s obvious for both of us at this point. But I know it has to be done in person.
