No spring break plans, they don't get that until April but at this point we have been scheduling things as a family.
Again this is the tricky point. I still have some GAL activities but not like I did when 100% DB'ing. I feel it is important to have the quality time together...to reconnect..right?
Yes, I agree with you. When a couple reconciles, then you don't continue implementing all the 37 rules, b/c the relationship is in a different place. Spending quality time together, doing things as family, GAL, etc., are needed. I caution LBS's about smothering the recovering WS. It's tricky. Some recovering WS need some space, while others may not. I don't recommend the WS go off on weekend trips or vacations without the LBS, and things of that nature for quite a while. It's difficult to write out a list of do's and don'ts that apply to ever case.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
