He's not a narcissist, but my father definitely was and I think I tend to see the worst possible spin on his motivations and behaviour because of that.
Or he is a narcissist, and I don't trust my own judgement because my father did a number on me and I can only find that type of man attractive and I need more IC.
I don't know. I am trying to know and be safe and calm but I just don't know.
