Yeah I read your stitch through those threads. Sounds like each WW has a different idea of what that is. My daughters are starting to notice how she is always gone.
Today the WINO (wife in name only) and I had to be together for a girls school function at a community college. The two Ds were hugging and hanging all over me. I saw her glancing over a lot. Her loss for not being there. The kids are gravitating towards me since I am interacting with them more and being the stable always there parent for them. It used to be 50 50