Hey Paul, I'm happy to help in some way. If you have not read the links at the bottom of first page on Sandi's Rules, I believe it could give you insight on the WW mindset and how the LBH needs to deal with it. I believe there is a difference in the WW and WAW, and I try to explain that difference within these threads.......while at the same time, I was trying to respond to the individual questions being asked by posters. There are several threads, but one where I mainly talk about the connection of the WW to a H with NGS is in my first thread of Sandi's Reflections. Here's the link:
When reading Divorce Remedy, you will not find the term, "wayward spouse". MWD does not separate the walk-away and the wayward spouse. Read Divorce Remedy first. Read NMMNG, and then read these other links.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
