Exquisitetobe - I wish that I had a "make it all better wand" to loan you.

Your anger is honest, legitimate and justified.

I think that in some ways as a former spouse that it is easier for us to cast them loose than it is for our children. Dad (Or Mom in my case) is a selfish entitled jerk. But we also taught them that Family is important.

I have no specific advice. Just a big hug. ((((Exquisitetobe))))

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I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells