“i am reaching out to you one more time as i you well know, i can not afford to keep on making the house payments alone. if you want to sell the house as you previously planned then you need to let me know on how to move forward with it. in the meantime, do you think you can start paying the mortgage again, or i will be left with no choice but to call the mortgage company and default on the payments which will take a big hit in both our credit ratings.
a meeting was set up with your lawyer on the 18th of this month. i have shared with you my thoughts on custody and as well as diving the assets and debts. before sitting down with him and as to have this move as quickly as you want, do you agree on what i will be proposing and if not, i need your input.