Quick update. WW agreed to my requests in the D settlement. Just need to figure out my logistics and continue to execute my financial plan.

GAL is still in full effect. Went to out of state this last weekend and will be doing that more often. I have been going to the gym at least twice a week. WW is out of town a lot for work so I don't like to leave the kids at home alone. Kids are on break now, going to take them to dinner and a movie tonight.

I started a hot yoga class thats right near my work. Employees where I work get a huge discount on unlimited classes so I took advantage of it. A very good friend of mine that I work with is now an instructor for the class. Its going to take a lot for me to get used to doing yoga in a very hot room. Gym membership is ending so I will be using my work gym or finding a much cheaper place.

Been maintaining my weight and very very slowly dropping body fat percentage. I still feel and look great. I still havent 100% decided to move to my moms yet or not. If I move there I will not be able to execute my portion of the custody agreement until I get my own place, but regardless if I stay in my house it will still be a bit before I get my own place because rentals are very hard to come by and not very cheap.

Overall I feel good. I still have some times where I get down. But they pass very fast. Mostly I am just down because I know that my kids won't have their dad 100% of the time like they do now. Kids are doing great in school. Both S11 and D16 doing very well. D16 lettered in academics and we had her ceremony this last Monday. Very proud of my kids. They are doing much better in school than I did.

I am carrying an A+ in my online college courses. I will have a degree eventually. Work is ok. The demotion [censored] but its an easy job. Very mundane though. I did this same job for 10 years before all of this BS happened and stripped me of my hard earned leadership role.

Hope everyone is doing well. Keep your head up, you will live. We got this.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019