I reread my post and realized how it sounded. I definitely don't/won't represent myself as a plan B, I want him to WANT to come back, not just come back because things didn't work out with OW. And I will (try) to do the things that don't make me look like a plan B. I want to be the plan A.
Married- 1y8m Together- 7.5y M- 37 H- 31 S- 4 months not wanting to work on things bomb- 4/15/18 left home- 5/5/18 Moved in with OW a week after leaving
