World is upside down right now

[joejoe1]

Othstr,

Are you his plan B? Why ask a question about being his plan B if you are willing to accept being it. Will he come back? Nobody can answer that, and the longest time frame, is usually answered by the LBS. The sooner the LBS move on with their life, the shorter a return time frame becomes.

I'm saying all those things above, because, if he returns (returns makes it sounds like he has went missing). Let's try the wording of, if he starts to get curious about you again, you won't be a plan B. He won't have a plan B. He will just have a plan and that will be you. Because, he knows you won't be waiting and didn't wait around for him. You moved along with your life and healed yourself.

You are only a plan B, if you represent yourself as a plan B.

You are a plan A, and your Ex won't approach in the future when no plan B BS, if you are representing yourself like a plan A. And if he tried you would quickly shoot that plan B BS in the face.