Hi neffer

I know what you mean and for most of the time it is what I do. I really am enjoying my life at the moment other than dealing with the kids mother.. I'd like her to be happy and be more positive for the kids and yet I know I can't help her do that, I'm still public enemy no.1.

Originally Posted by neffer
Sure she doesn´t want that, she just wants to keep control of a non existent marriage.



This is the answer to the million dollar question and I do have difficulties when the kids are used each and every time through her lawyer letters to try and do so... I have become tired from it mostly, reminds me alot of when we were together, feeling like I was talking to a brick wall and banging my head in frustration...

It has slowed me down from really moving on at times (maybe more than I care to admit), the kids are tired of her negativity and it has been draining on us all and like I said my lawyer isn't sure what to do either...

Thanks for the bump mate, her circus and all that..