I think it depends more on each individual person-
not so much gender because we see plenty of MLC moms leave their kids here

I also see the male LBS becoming great fathers here just as we woman take on roles of both parents to support our kids
the LBS male seems very similar to LBS woman as both genders seek individual support by coming here, personal growth and healing and seems to put the kids first and many stand for great lengths of time-
some even longer than the woman stand-

for the MLCer:
maybe it depends more on how bad their childhood was
if they are addicted to something and what the addiction is to

if they get help vs if they tumble further into addictive behavior/drugs alcohol

just my guess


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
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