Quick journal: dh texted me this morning and we had a few light hearted back and forth texts going about the kids and ourselves. I feel in a good place this morning, I feel like dh and I are finally at a more stable and friendly place with each other. I feel optimistic that we will work things out somehow, but I'm going to avoid any R talk like the plague unless he brings it up. I'll GAL and keep up the communication with him and be empathetic and open and not act like a know-it-all. He just texted me about a running injury he has and I had to be careful not to tell him how to fix it (I work very hard not to get running injuries!). I can share my experience but telling him what to do will just backfire, so I won't. Definitely a new habit, and a useful one to remember for everyone, not just my dh.