Believe who a person is the first time they show you.
This is so very true. People will show us who they are if only we will believe them! I can't tell you how many times something happened early on but it's really patterns of behavior we need to watch for. Still after the patterns appear it's uncanny how an example of that pattern was shown early on. You don't want to jump to conclusions though either but I cannot agree more how Ginger is correct in this - believe who a person shows herself to be!
Originally Posted by Ginger1
There are some pretty great non-flakey women out there. And I think they put [out] number the flakey ones.
Oh how I wished this were true but sadly when it comes to AVAILBLE women, flakey outnumbers non-flakey all day long. Sad but so very true.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
