Trust me, I don’t like talking to my FIL but he is a controlling type. I told him my plan which he didn’t like but he did say that it is up to me. I am waiting until next Wednesday after L, IC to push for her to move out temporarily. I will be calm and say that IHS is not working for me. I will ask her to do temporary move out and I will write up a separation agreement. If she rejects that, I will then suggest we proceed to a dissolution for the sake of the kids. Tell her I can pay her spousal support and then be able to keep the children here where they want to live and where I can afford. She had mentioned before that approach of dissolution instead of divorce. If she rebuffs that then I will tell her the only avenue left would be a D which will be costly for both of us and be hard on the children. I will then offer her to time period to let her decide on which route she wants to do. If no decision is made by that date, I will proceed to call L and initiate the D.
I will say it calmly and then walk out of the room. Her IC was cancelled today so I am going out tonight to get out of the house and GAL.
