This will be a question I present to the L tomorrow. However, trust me when I tell you that he and her are not talking. Neither is my MIL with my W. My W is not happy because they got involved early on and told her this was a mistake and she needed to cut it off with the guy and her BFF. My wife listened at the time but it only lasted 12 hours of not talking to OM. As her dad says, she did not lie to them but just couldn't follow through with what she thought she could do (AKA she knew it was wrong but is still doing it). The BFF lasted about 5 to 6 days prior to talking to the toxic B.
I know he means well and I told him that I have a forum (didn't say where) that has told me to detach, quit pursuing, make the changes in myself, etc. He liked all of that. He then brings up the Gone with the Wind movie every single time he calls me. He asks me to delete the texts between me and him because he knows that if my W ever found out, she would never talk to him ever again even if we got D. He is willing to lose that relationship with his D to try to salvage it. I mentioned that the L told me not to move out. Hell, my FIL told me not to move out.
He said that well that was just on moving out without an agreement stipulating that this is only a temporary 2 week thing that is signed off by both counselors and indicates no other legal rights are forfeited. He said to talk to the attorney about that. Once I retain an attorney, he said ethically he can't help at all even on discussions with me. But I know he ain't trying to pull the wool over my eyes. However, I will speak to an attorney tomorrow about this possibility.
