Originally Posted by hope2019
How do I recover this?
Again everything is counter intuitive.


There are a million ways to say this: Set him free. Do not try to control him.

Change the dynamics.

This is the mindset. You do not have to say these words:
W:"H, This is no longer working for me. I do not want to be married to someone who is acting single. Do you want to keep the house, or should I start looking for a place?"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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