No Longer Down, Definitely Not OUt

[AnotherStander]

I suggested to him that he read the No More Mr. Nice Guy book and maybe get some therapy.

OH WOW. How to know if your first date is going poorly- your date suggests you get some therapy I'm sorry it went bad but you've go to admit it makes for a funny story!

And he seems particularly concerned with what I look like and not about who I am as a person. He is super flirtatious. Says if he beats me at pool, I have to make out with him.

Oh good, date number 2 is with Shallow Hal! I hope he isn't the creep he's sounding like, but.... creepy creeper sounds creepy. If he is a creeper then please do humiliate him in pool

Some 43 year-old guy on the other side of the country who is desparate to be in a relationship. He was surprisingly good looking but his mindset is, I’m sure, a deal breaker for anyone with some self esteem. He fell in love with my picture and would not take no for an answer...kept trying to get my number. I tried to give him some dating advice and told him he probably hasn’t found anyone because people can sense how badly he wants to connect with someone and it is too much pressure. Anyway...had to block him. Super thankful that he doesn’t live near me because he is definitely stalker potential.

So what didn't you find attractive about that? No I'm kidding, LOL!

Had three guys contact me yesterday who apparently remember me from high school. They all graduated within a year of me but I didn’t recognize any of them.

That seems like a strange coincidence, do you think they know each other and decided to launch a multi-pronged attack?