Always think before acting. It is a learned skill, especially when emotions are at play.


Is what I am about to do (or say) going to push him farther away or draw him closer?


Did you have a chance to read any of living's thread? There is great advise in there that I am sure you can apply.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&view=started&id=40507

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712