I am glad you shared, and vented - venting that is so very good.
My goodness you have a lot going on. The stress is quite evident even on this virtual page. That’s a great idea going to the gym.
Now, that @ss with the mean comments. Arrrr. Of course that hurt. What a jerk! Let it go. Feelings will flit away. And you know you’re pretty darn awesome. And if you don’t, let me tell you - You’re pretty darn awesome!
What a rigmarole the insurance is. Finding your way through the red tape. You’ll make it.
Get a good night sleep. Things will look better when you are fresh.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.