If you have any waiver about standing or moving on - Stand!
As to an eventual end to her behavour. There is no answer to timelines. I tend to believe that most people grow up and figure out their past. Whether they reach out to the LBS is a question, again not knowable. And unfortunately some people never find their way back from the darkness.
When talking about my beliefs regarding most common trends. Most LBS stop standing before the MLC runs its course. And that is perfectly alright. Standing is for you, not her.
You mentioned doing the best for you and your kids.
Originally Posted by Faith4fu
Do I continue to wait it out or do I move on?
This was not fully answered in my first line.
You do neither.
Do not move on until absolutely sure it is what your deep core beliefs tell you to do.
Do not wait. This is a long process. Waiting will make it feel even longer.
You stand and move forward. Live you life! Love your life! GAL. You work on yourself, you become the best Faith4fu you can be. You become the best Dad you can be.
Do you have any long term headings? Grand noble goals to reach, like forgiveness.
I would love to hear more of your situation. How long married? How many and how old are kids? You mentioned detachment, how is that coming along. Any feelings of indifference?
I do hope you will post, it does help one sort out their feelings and thoughts.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
