svdad, We are still currently living in the same house and have set days that each of us are responsible for the kids. On her days I generally organize GAL and only return to the house to sleep. It is one terrible way to live. I have long had suspicions that she was/is having an affair but I have never bothered looking into it or trying to find out. At the end of the day I trust my gut on it and it doesn't really matter. The only real explanation I ever got for her wanting a D is the typical ILYBNILWY and has never really happy. The usual WAW script that you read in almost every sitch on here. She always wanted kids but currently spends very little time with them and partying with younger single friends is her #1 priority in life.
