svdad, please consider the question about being a right fighter. Being right and being happy aren't always congruent. Trust me, as a committed right fighter for most of my life I had to learn that to be happy sometimes I didn't always need to fight for being right or justified all the time.
Steve this is the first time i have heard the term "right fighter". I would have to assume I am. But in this specific case - my kids and their future are what I am fighting for.
