Hey Ryan, thanks for that! My wife is *very* keen on getting divorced. She wants it done asap. The problem is - I have supported her and done nearly everything for her for the last 16 years. She is content being in fairly tale land with OM up to this point. She needs to come to the table with the reality of D and what it entails, and let me know her plan on financials, child agreements, etc and so far has none of that. Is that like your sitch or no?
svdad, My W, if you were to ask her wants nothing more then to get a D. Fairly early on I adopted the stance and made it clear to her that she was free to do as she pleased, I wasn't about to stop her and she was free to leave if she pleased. Like your W and Steve's she wanted a quick easy online divorce (not even legally possible where we live when children are involved). I advised her lawyers were required and suggested she go for a consult which she did. 5 months later not one single item has been discussed between us, every time I ask about things i.e. the kids, the schedule, the house, the finances the answer is "I don't know, I need to figure it out". So I have a women that claims she desperately wants a D but will not actually do anything to make it happen. The common saying on here comes to mind "Believe only 50% of what they say".
