Hey O - like the recent updates even though some challenging stuff around dating and your R with Mary. Getting that wall down is not easy after what you've gone through. Totally understandable.
Just like J9, my exW is now dating and I don't see or hear anything about him. Her SM stuff is private so I have no idea if she's got him on there or not. I actually prefer it this way - the less mental space it can take. exW also sometimes sends me random texts about stuff, generally has to do with kids - no idea why. And then when I respond back and say something short and direct, I get crickets in return. It's super bizarre. Mind-reading is like a thing of the past so I don't try to spin myself out of shape when she does this, but I don't get it. Like why is she sending this and then complete silence afterwards. Who knows what's going through her head? I just keep focus on me and all that other stuff is riff raff.
I am almost at the end of getting the legal stuff done and so it'll be officially over soon.
