Ok, I went to my IC appointment today. I also scheduled another consultation with another attorney to get educated on a legal separation and how to get exclusive rights to the property. I will have that discussion on Friday. My IC said to do the MC and the therapist may tell her that there is no way to work on our relationship with the OM in the picture. I will then go back to my IC next Wednesday to discuss how to go about getting her to leave. My IC agrees that she is cake eating and needs to move out. How we get there depends on legal advice.