It's good to hear from you again, Paul. Sorry things aren't much better. I think you have to hold the line and not compromise your values. She knows she has done you wrong. If she's having problems with OM, then don't be thrown off guard if she starts acting pitiful, maybe crying, and even saying she needs a hug from you. This is the WW having a pity party, and nothing more. She will probably temp check you at any moment, She wants to secure you as her backup plan.
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I feel like I don't even care about her and if I even can think about her as person. I guess it's kind sad.
It's easier to apply tough love when you feel that way. And quite frankly, the WW needs to see exactly what you've described in that sentence. It's the jolt she needs. If only H's would do this as soon as he finds out about OM or gets bomb drop, it would save a lot more M's.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
