P....I remember when I first started dating I was all excited then I guess maybe reality set in or who knows what but now it has changed for me. I don’t feel that I am depressed, maybe not completely over my D, maybe afraid to be vulnerable again, I don’t know. I am coming up on 1 yr of it being final and 2 years since my Xw left. I feel the engine starting to fire at times but at other times it doesn’t. I guess just be patient with yourself.
TBSakaJ9,
There was a psychology study that was done a long time ago; they found that, when people are presented with lots of choices, they often have difficulty making a decision and flounder in the sea of options. I think OLD is kind of like that. OLD provides a never-ending supply of options and that can lead to burnout. Maybe it's a good time to take a break and do some GAL instead. Who knows, you might meet someone you like whilst enjoying the activities you like.
