svdad, how do you think your exchange with her helped your sitch?
I think I achieved one of my goals - which is to help her understand that divorce is no quick/easy/non-forever changing decision and that she needs to really understand the implications here. She is so caught up with her 'new happy life' and OM that she is borderline delusional at this point. By doing research, talking to L/mediator hopefully she will make the right decisions for our kids futures.
