I don't know from the post-D woman's perspective, but from the post-D man's view do the women just start coming out of the woodwork or is did I just have the husband blinders on before? At times I feel like chum in shark infested water, and this is a very new feeling I am not used to.
Yes there is no question about it. I have been propositioned by several under sexed middle age married women. I have always gotten attention from women but nothing like I get now. I have had 3 no strings attached encounters in the last 7 months.
Originally Posted by Twofeet
However, I am starting to just feel "meh" about all this potential dating and intimate R in general. Did this happen to anyone? I mean I have already had the opportunity to date a few women without even trying, but as I alluded to I am not ready. I just haven't been feeling the interest in dating even though the women are very interesting. The initial excitement in the idea of it all is just gone.
TF, you have to give yourself a break, less then six months ago you were happily married (in your mind). Dating after D goes through stages. At first it OLD is really exciting you are like a kid in a candy store. Then reality sets in and you realize that it is not like ordering out of a catalog. There is a lot of deceit where people are not who they advertise, ghosting and sometimes if everything checks out there is no connection. I live in the east so in January and February I was like it's too cold I don't feel like going out in the cold to meet someone who may or may not look like their pictures. I have been on 13 OLD dates and only wanted a second date once. I am not sure if I am too picky, if I am not ready for a commitment or am just happy being alone.
Originally Posted by Twofeet
Some aspects of life from a post-D lens just isn't that great anymore. Maybe I am being naive.
Listen you went from BD to D Han Solo in the Millennium Falcon style. Life after D is 1,000 times better then being in limbo and living with a person that wants out.
